DAY 1 2024

January 1, 2024January 1, 2024 / joseph elon lillie / 2 Comments

Happy New Year!

2023 is history. Here is my favorite picture from the last year.

This is a picture of night time at The Vicarage during a full moon. I was pleasantly surprised by the filter edits I was able to impose on the original.

I am setting my sights on 2024 now. I am praying close into what God will give me for the year ahead. I already know my word for the year…”PREPARE”. I am asking now what I should use for filters on the raw material God gives me so that I might be prepared for God’s best outcome.

I know I am going to be working on my weight, strength and flexibility.

I know I am going to be working on my administrative capabilities.

I know I am going to be working on my writing again.

I know I am going to be preparing for some big changes at The Vicarage which will affect me spiritually, emotionally, and practically.

I know there are opportunities and challenges in my pastoral work that I need to get a better understanding of.

I know there are coming changes in The United States and the Earth which I need to understand better.

I know God is about to move in our church in some new, exciting and challenging ways.

I know God is about to move in our region in some new, exciting and challenging ways.

Lord Prepare me! Lord prepare us!

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WHAT DO YOU THINK THE NEXT YEAR WILL BRING?

WHAT DOES A DAY LOOK LIKE?

December 30, 2023 / joseph elon lillie / 3 Comments

People might wonder what a day in the life of a minister looks like. Well every day is different, but each day does have its commonalities.

PRAYER

No call to ministry can be carried out without much prayer. For me prayer is a practice I call myself back to seven times a day. Some of my prayer sessions are short, some are long depending on the rest of my daily schedule, but everything I do must be hemmed in by prayer.

BIBLE STUDY

Every day needs the Bible to be read and studied. Today being Saturday I spent time in devotional reading (Revelation and Deuteronomy) and then I spent some time studying Greek tenses for my sermon tomorrow.

PEOPLE WORK

There is never a day which does not involve connecting with people: Visitation, services, group studies, outreach, phone calls, letter writing, e-mails, texts, Messenger. I use them all and more in order to make connections with my congregation and community. Building relationships is a part of everyday’s work.

PAPER WORK

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Paperwork and administration is also an essential part of the everyday work of a minister. It is my weakest area of ministry. It is what I call “swallowing the frog.”

FAMILY

Unlike most jobs the family life of a minister is an important consideration. The other works of ministry often make prioritizing family health very difficult. Lord knows, I have done a poor job of it during many seasons of my ministry life. It certainly effected my effectiveness as a minister. Now I try everyday to make at least some small move towards greater family health.

I don’t think of the ministry as a job, really. It’s more of a life rhythm that helps influence a community’s health.

Finishing Up and Getting Ready

December 29, 2023 / joseph elon lillie / Leave a comment

The season of lights is almost over. 2023 is nearly done. My son and his family took me to Lancaster Nights on Wednesday to see the year out. We enjoyed the ride through the park of lights.

Each light display, each tunnel reminded me that we are on a journey here at The Vicarage. 2024 is right around the corner and I sense something momentous is coming in the year ahead.

Today Joe, Kristine and Sevy are on a two day breakaway, in Wells Maine. Amanda and I began preparing the house for the arrival of my sister in 13 days. She is coming to help with Mom for the next few months.

Mom’s health has taken a turn these last few weeks. It feels like this is a part of the momentous change that is coming in 2024. It is, certainly, one of the most important things I feel our family needs to prepare for. I am praying much into the “how’s’ and “wherefores” of this preparation as well as into what else the word preparation is going to mean for The Vicarage in the next 365 day span.

PREPARE IS MY WORD FOR THE YEAR. WHAT IS YOUR WORD?

THE EXTENDED FAMILY VISITS

December 22, 2023 / joseph elon lillie / 2 Comments

It is Christmas and with Christmas comes the visits from extended family. I love these times of sharing and family memory.

Kristine’s Mom called today from Ilo Ilo and I imagine we will be hearing from Kristine’s sister n Singapore sometime this weekend. I also expect we will be chatting with Brenda from The Netherlands. And my son Joe will undoubtedly chat with his friend Bill in South Korea as well.We are a global family!

I enjoy hearing about the goings on around the world. I also love seeing family, right here at home, we don’t get to see very often. Aunt Carol and Uncle Tom stopped by this afternoon and stayed for a visit.

Usually they just pop in with a holiday bread and pop back out. Mom, Carol and Tom are the last living members of their generation in our family. Mom and Carol are the last sisters from a family of eight. Both are living with dementia and both are easily tired out. Today was a good day, though, and all three felt like visiting. So I put on a pot of coffee.

Uncle Tom pulled up a chair for Aunt Carol in the living room and we left the sisters to visit while we had our coffee around the new dining table Joe and Kristine bought me for Christmas. Mom and Aunt Carol chatted for about an hour about their grandchildren while Uncle Tom and I talked about wildlife and ancestry. The stories of the old days are some of my favorite conversations.

Our visit today reminded me that I still need to pick up some holiday breads and drop them by the cousins houses before Christmas comes. Well that’s a job for tomorrow morning. Tonight I need to do some wrapping of the Christmas presents I bought this afternoon.

WHERE ARE YOU AT IN YOUR CHRISTMAS PREPARATION?

THE GIVING SEASON

December 21, 2023 / joseph elon lillie / Leave a comment

Today’s Wisdom From the Alpacas is…“SINCE YOU GET MORE JOY OUT OF GIVING JOY TO OTHERS, YOU SHOULD PUT A GOOD DEAL OF THOUGHT INTO THE HAPPINESS THAT YOU ARE ABLE TO GIVE.” ELEANOR ROOSEVELT

The season of giving.

is also a season of rushing. I am not sure how it happens, exactly. I go into it with the best of intentions. I plan to be ready to put “a good deal of thought” into what I am able to give. Yet every year I find myself whirling around at the last minute trying to get things ready to give in time.

I have my lists. I have my plans. But life sort of gets in the way and I never get to the place of executing those plans until just a few days before. I know what I want to get for everyone. It’s the actual getting of things that seems to be the problem.

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In the fall I actually planned to take a few days in November to do the Christmas shopping. That never happened. I ended up buying a grand total of one gift before Thanksgiving (oh and this year I did succeed in sending gifts off to The Netherlands in time for SInterklaus).

So here I am four days before Christmas just beginning the Christmas gifting process. Well it’s better than some years. I have four days not four hours….so let the shopping begin!

A DAY GIVEN TO DEATH

December 20, 2023 / joseph elon lillie / Leave a comment

I am in the midst of a day of death. I awoke this morning and headed to church early to set up tables in our fellowship hall for a funeral reception we are having this evening. After finishing up at church I was just sitting down to put the finishing touches on my funeral sermon when I got a call from another parishioner. His wife had just passed into glory.

I experienced several moments of feeling overwhelmed. Then the still small voice of God spoke into my heart.

DEATH IS NOT THE END. IT IS A BEGINNING.

I knew this as truth. I just needed the reminder in the moment of stress. I am thankful for a God who is able to speak to me when I need speaking to.

Bolstered by the knowledge of new beginnings I went to the family, prayed with them, hugged them and did the work for which God has appointed me. Now as I sit awaiting tonight’s funeral that knowledge still holds me and will hold me through. Such knowledge can hold us all through as we face life’s greatest challenges. There is a God who loves us. He is passionate about mankind. He brings help wherever He is invited, wherever He is welcomed. In the presence of God even death becomes a doorway through which we can walk into greater blessing.

WHERE IN YOUR LIFE DO YOU NEED TO WELCOME GOD AT THIS MOMENT?

The How

December 19, 2023 / joseph elon lillie / Leave a comment

I thought when I bought THE WISDOM OF ALPACAS, that I was buying a book of quotes on individuality. Apparently I was mistaken. It seems to be a book of quotes on happiness. Today’s quote…

“HAPPINESS IS A HOW, NOT A WHAT. A TALENT, NOT AN OBJECT.” HERMAN HESS.

I like that. In our materialistic and perfectionistic culture it is hard to remember that happiness and joy are never found in things or in circumstances.

First of all, I think joy is a gift from God that we can either access or block.

We can either receive joy or reject it.

We receive joy when we practice being thankful. Once when I was having a hard time I made myself write fifty things every day I was thankful for.

We reject joy when we complain.

We receive joy when we choose to celebrate the ebb and flow of life. This week is Christmas. I am not done my shopping yet, but I am refusing to stress about it. I will get it done and the giving is just one part of a much larger celebration. The celebration will happen whether I stress out or not. Christmas will come whether I finish my shopping or whether everything is perfect according to my definition of perfection or not. What will make me joyful or not is how much I participate in the celebration . Participation in the day… that is my choice.

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HOW DO YOU CHOOSE JOY?

UNDER MY FEET

December 18, 2023 / joseph elon lillie / 2 Comments

Today’s quote from The Wisdom of Alpacas is from James Oppenheim, “THE FOOLISH MAN SEEKS HAPPINESS IN THE DISTANCE, THE WISE GROWS IT UNDER HIS FEET.”

One of my personal core values is contentment. For me contentment is about learning to both accept what is and to transform even that which is not good into something useful and blessed. As a Christian I believe even the most difficult things can be redeemed. That doesn’t mean I think that everything can be fixed. Lord knows I have experienced things in my own life which could not be fixed no matter how much I wished they could be.

For me accepting the brokenness of things is the first step in contentment. The second is figuring out whether the thing can be or maybe even should be fixed.

I THINK THAT SOME THINGS SHOULDN’T BE FIXED. WHAT DO YOU THINK?

The third step in contentment is discovering what good can come from the broken things of life when they are mixed with the whole things of life.

I think of contentment like baking a cake. It is taking all of life’s ingredients and making something good out of them. It is not as some people think giving up or settling for the status quo.

Paul the apostle said “godliness with contentment is great gain.” I think that is the biblical idea behind Oppenheim’s comment. I can choose to keep looking into the distance for some bit of happiness forever out of my reach or I can make my own life the source of my happiness. Contentment is one of the ways I make my own life my main source of joy.

WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT OPPENHEIM’S COMMENT?

WHAT WOULD YOU ADD TO A CONVERSATION ON CONTENTMENT?

THOSE OPEN DOORS

December 14, 2023 / joseph elon lillie / 2 Comments

Rose Lane said, “HAPPINESS IS SOMETHING THAT COMES INTO OUR LIVES THROUGH DOORS WE DON’T EVEN REMEMBER LEAVING OPEN.”

THIS QUOTE MALES ME THINK ABOUT LIFE’S SURPRISE MOMENTS.

Surprises….I have to admit I usually think of them as a crap shoot. You never know what you’re going to get when a surprise comes along. Usually I view surprises as holding potential problems. I am trying to change the way I think in that regard.

I am trying to ask….

WHAT’S THE POTENTIAL HERE?

WHAT IS GOD DOING IN THIS SURPRISE?

HOW DOES THIS SURPRISE ADVANCE GOD’S PURPOSE?

Maybe some day Rose Lane’s thoughts will be my first thoughts. In the meantime I am trying to recognize open doors before they surprise me with what comes through them.

HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH SURPRISES.

So Much Fun

December 11, 2023 / joseph elon lillie / 2 Comments

We just marched through the second weekend of Advent, The weekend of Peace. It was so much fun. Last week our church was honored to host our local high school for three days while the school was repaired from a malfunction with one of its hot water heaters.

This weekend we had a team come in to clean up and get ready for church on Sunday. But the church staff and school staff did such a great job of putting the church back together that the congregation was able to do a few extra jobs which have been waiting in the wings.

I had thought we would have the students with us for two weeks, so I rented this huge dumpster which the school hardly used. We used it instead to get rid of a shed full of rotten lumber we have been sitting on for a looooong time. Meanwhile a group of ladies went through out kitchen and indoor storage rooms to get rid of old and broken kitchen and ministry items.

I love cleaning out!

Another group of congregants worked in the sanctuary reattaching the chairs which had been disconnected and because it is the fourth season of the church year they also vacuumed. You know the four seasons of the church year don’t you? Spring, Summer, Fall and Glitter.

Vacuuming is not really effective against glitter but at least it gets up the sand and the salt that people carry in from the parking lot.

After the clean out Amanda and I headed over to our sister church, Bread of Life, which was hosting the Special Touch Ministry Christmas party.

It was ten years ago that Amanda and I joined twelve other people led by Mike and Kim Ferguson to start the first New England Chapter of Special Touch Ministry to the Disabled.

It is amazing to see what God has done over this last decade through this ministry!

It was even more amazing to see Mike playing King Herod for the Christmas story wearing a tiara.

While we were partying, Kristine was hard at work at home reorganizing the Vicarage kitchen.

Amanda, Melanie, Daniella and Abigail, finished off the night by attending Cornerstone’s leadership Christmas party.

It was a busy day filled with true peace.

WHAT DID YOU DO LAST WEEKEND?

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